How to develop persistence? And its causes and symptoms.

CAUSES OF PERSISTENCE

Persistence is a state of mind, therefore it can be cultivated. Like all states of  mind, persistence is based upon definite causes, among them these:—

a. DEFINITENESS OF PURPOSE. Knowing what one wants  is the first and, perhaps, the most important step toward the  development of persistence. A strong motive forces one to  surmount many difficulties.

b. DESIRE. It is comparatively easy to acquire and to  maintain persistence in pursuing the object of intense desire.

c. SELF-RELIANCE. Belief in one's ability to carry out a plan  encourages one to follow the plan through with persistence. (Selfreliance can be developed through the principle described in the  chapter on auto-suggestion).

d. DEFINITENESS OF PLANS. Organized plans, even  though they may be weak and entirely impractical, encourage  persistence.

e. ACCURATE KNOWLEDGE. Knowing that one's plans are  sound, based upon experience or observation, encourages  persistence; "guessing" instead of "knowing" destroys persistence.

f. CO-OPERATION. Sympathy, understanding, and harmonious cooperation with others tend to develop persistence.

g. HABIT. Persistence is the direct result of habit. The mind  absorbs and becomes a part of the daily experiences upon which it  feeds. Fear, the worst of all enemies, can be effectively cured by  forced repetition of acts of courage. Everyone who has seen active  service in war knows this.

SYMPTOMS OF LACK OF PERSISTENCE

Here you will find the real enemies which stand between you and  noteworthy achievement. Here you will find not only the "symptoms" indicating  weakness of PERSISTENCE, but also the deeply seated subconscious causes of  this weakness. Study the list carefully, and face yourself squarely IF YOU  REALLY WISH TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE, AND WHAT YOU ARE CAPABLE  OF DOING. These are the weaknesses which must be mastered by all who  accumulate riches.

1. Failure to recognize and to clearly define exactly what one wants.

2. Procrastination, with or without cause. (Usually backed up with a formidable array of alibis and excuses).

3. Lack of interest in acquiring specialized knowledge.

4. Indecision, the habit of "passing the buck" on all occasions, instead of facing issues squarely. (Also backed by alibis).

5. The habit of relying upon alibis instead of creating definite plans for the solution of problems.

6. Self-satisfaction. There is but little remedy for this affliction, and no hope for those who suffer from it.

7. Indifference, usually reflected in one's readiness to compromise on all occasions, rather than meet opposition and fight it.

8. The habit of blaming others for one's mistakes, and accepting unfavorable circumstances as being unavoidable.

9. WEAKNESS OF DESIRE, due to neglect in the choice of MOTIVES that impel action.

10. Willingness, even eagerness, to quit at the first sign of defeat.

11. Lack of ORGANIZED PLANS, placed in writing where  they may be analyzed.

12. The habit of neglecting to move on ideas, or to grasp  opportunity when it presents itself.

13. WISHING instead of WILLING.

14. The habit of compromising with POVERTY instead of  aiming at riches. General absence of ambition to be, to do, and to  own.

15. Searching for all the shortcuts to riches, trying to GET  without GIVING a fair equivalent, usually reflected in the habit of  gambling, endeavoring to drive "sharp" bargains.

16. FEAR OF CRITICISM, failure to create plans and to put  them into action, because of what other people will think, do, or  say. This enemy belongs at the head of the list, because it generally  exists in one's subconscious mind, where its presence is not  recognized.

HOW TO DEVELOP PERSISTENCE

There are four simple steps which lead to the habit of PERSISTENCE.  They call for no great amount of intelligence, no particular amount of education,  and but little time or effort. The necessary steps are:—

1. A DEFINITE PURPOSE BACKED BY BURNING DESIRE FOR ITS FULFILLMENT.

 2. A DEFINITE PLAN, EXPRESSED IN CONTINUOUS ACTION.

 3. A MIND CLOSED TIGHTLY AGAINST ALL NEGATIVE AND DISCOURAGING INFLUENCES, including negative suggestions of relatives, friends and acquaintances.

4. A FRIENDLY ALLIANCE WITH ONE OR MORE PERSONS WHO WILL ENCOURAGE ONE TO FOLLOW THROUGH WITH BOTH PLAN AND PURPOSE.

These four steps are essential for success in all walks of life. The entire  purpose of the thirteen principles of this philosophy is to enable one to take these  four steps as a matter of habit.

• These are the steps by which one may control one's economic destiny. 
• They are the steps that lead to freedom and independence of thought. 
• They are the steps that lead to riches, in small or great quantities.
• They lead the way to power, fame, and worldly recognition. 
• They are the four steps which guarantee favorable "breaks."
• They are the steps that convert dreams into physical realities.
• They lead, also, to the mastery of FEAR, DISCOURAGEMENT, INDIFFERENCE.

The thirty major causes of failure. How many of these are holding you back?

Joseph Murphy analysis proved that there are thirty major reasons for failure.As you go over the list, check yourself by it, point by point, for the purpose of discovering how many of these causes-of-failure stand between you and success.

1. UNFAVORABLE HEREDITARY BACKGROUND. There  is but little, if anything, which can be done for people who are born  with a deficiency in brain power. This philosophy offers but one  method of bridging this weakness— through the aid of the Master  Mind. Observe with profit, however, that this is the ONLY one of  the thirty causes of failure which may not be easily corrected by any  individual.

2. LACK OF A WELL-DEFINED PURPOSE IN LIFE. There is  no hope of success for the person who does not have a central  purpose, or definite goal at which to aim. Ninety-eight out of every  hundred of those whom I have analyzed, had no such aim.

3. LACK OF AMBITION TO AIM ABOVE MEDIOCRITY.  We offer no hope for the person who is so indifferent as not to want  to get ahead in life, and who is not willing to pay the price.

4. INSUFFICIENT EDUCATION. This is a handicap which  may be overcome with comparative ease. Experience has proven  that the best-educated people are often those who are known as  "self-made," or self-educated. It takes more than a college degree to  make one a person of education. Any person who is educated is  one who has learned to get whatever he wants in life without  violating the rights of others. Education consists, not so much of  knowledge, but of knowledge effectively and persistently  APPLIED. Men are paid, not merely for what they know, but more  particularly for WHAT THEY DO WITH THAT WHICH THEY  KNOW.

5. LACK OF SELF-DISCIPLINE. Discipline comes through  self-control. This means that one must control all negative qualities.  Before you can control conditions, you must first control yourself.  Self-mastery is the hardest job you will ever tackle. If you do not  conquer self, you will be conquered by self. You may see at one and  the same time both your best friend and your greatest enemy, by  stepping in front of a mirror.

6. ILL HEALTH. No person may enjoy outstanding success  without good health. Many of the causes of ill health are subject to  mastery and control. These, in the main are:
a. Overeating of foods not conducive to health
b. Wrong habits of thought; giving expression to  negatives.
c. Wrong use of, and over indulgence in sex.
d. Lack of proper physical exercise
e. An inadequate supply of fresh air, due to improper  breathing.

7. UNFAVORABLE ENVIRONMENTAL INFLUENCES  DURING CHILDHOOD. "As the twig is bent, so shall the tree  grow." Most people who have criminal tendencies acquire them as  the result of bad environment, and improper associates during  childhood.

8. PROCRASTINATION. This is one of the most common  causes of failure. "Old Man Procrastination" stands within the  shadow of every human being, waiting his opportunity to spoil  one's chances of success. Most of us go through life as failures,  because we are waiting for the "time to be right" to start doing  something worthwhile. Do not wait. The time will never be "just  right." Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you  may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you  go along.

9. LACK OF PERSISTENCE. Most of us are good "starters"  but poor "finishers" of everything we begin. Moreover, people are  prone to give up at the first signs of defeat. There is no substitute  for PERSISTENCE. The person who makes PERSISTENCE his  watch-word, discovers that "Old Man Failure" finally becomes  tired, and makes his departure. Failure cannot cope with  PERSISTENCE.

10. NEGATIVE PERSONALITY. There is no hope of success  for the person who repels people through a negative personality.  Success comes through the application of POWER, and power is  attained through the cooperative efforts of other people. A negative  personality will not induce cooperation.

11. LACK OF CONTROLLED SEXUAL URGE. Sex energy is  the most powerful of all the stimuli which move people into  ACTION. Because it is the most powerful of the emotions, it must  be controlled, through transmutation, and converted into other  channels.

12. UNCONTROLLED DESIRE FOR "SOMETHING FOR  NOTHING." The gambling instinct drives millions of people to  failure. Evidence of this may be found in a study of the Wall Street  crash of '29, during which millions of people tried to make money  by gambling on stock margins.

13. LACK OF A WELL DEFINED POWER OF DECISION.  Men who succeed reach decisions promptly, and change them, if at  all, very slowly. Men who fail, reach decisions, if at all, very slowly,  and change them frequently, and quickly. Indecision and  procrastination are twin brothers. Where one is found, the other  may usually be found also. Kill off this pair before they completely  "hog-tie" you to the treadmill of FAILURE.

14. ONE OR MORE OF THE SIX BASIC FEARS. These fears  have been analyzed for you in a later chapter. They must be  mastered before you can market your services effectively.

15. WRONG SELECTION OF A MATE IN MARRIAGE. This  a most common cause of failure. The relationship of marriage  brings people intimately into contact. Unless this relationship is  harmonious, failure is likely to follow. Moreover, it will be a form  of failure that is marked by misery and unhappiness, destroying all  signs of AMBITION.

16. OVER-CAUTION. The person who takes no chances,  generally has to take whatever is left when others are through  choosing. Over-caution is as bad as under-caution. Both are  extremes to be guarded against. Life itself is filled with the element  of chance.

17. WRONG SELECTION OF ASSOCIATES IN BUSINESS.  This is one of the most common causes of failure in business. In  marketing personal services, one should use great care to select an  employer who will be an inspiration, and who is, himself,  intelligent and successful. We emulate those with whom we  associate most closely. Pick an employer who is worth emulating.

18. SUPERSTITION AND PREJUDICE. Superstition is a  form of fear. It is also a sign of ignorance. Men who succeed keep  open minds and are afraid of nothing.

19. WRONG SELECTION OF A VOCATION. No man can  succeed in a line of endeavor which he does not like. The most  essential step in the marketing of personal services is that of  selecting an occupation into which you can throw yourself  wholeheartedly.

20. LACK OF CONCENTRATION OF EFFORT. The "jack-ofall-trades" seldom is good at any. Concentrate all of your efforts on  one DEFINITE CHIEF AIM.

21. THE HABIT OF INDISCRIMINATE SPENDING. The  spend-thrift cannot succeed, mainly because he stands eternally in  FEAR OF POVERTY. Form the habit of systematic saving by  putting aside a definite percentage of your income. Money in the  bank gives one a very safe foundation of COURAGE when bargaining for the sale of personal services. Without money, one must  take what one is offered, and be glad to get it.

22. LACK OF ENTHUSIASM. Without enthusiasm one  cannot be convincing. Moreover, enthusiasm is contagious, and the  person who has it, under control, is generally welcome in any  group of people.

23. INTOLERANCE. The person with a "closed" mmd on  any subject seldom gets ahead. Intolerance means that one has  stopped acquiring knowledge. The most damaging forms of  intolerance are those connected with religious, racial, and political  differences of opinion.

24. INTEMPERANCE. The most damaging forms of  intemperance are connected with eating, strong drink, and sexual  activities. Overindulgence in any of these is fatal to success.

25. INABILITY TO COOPERATE WITH OTHERS. More  people lose their positions and their big opportunities in life,  because of this fault, than for all other reasons combined. It is a  fault which no well-informed business man, or leader will tolerate.

26. POSSESSION OF POWER THAT WAS NOT ACQUIRED  THROUGH SELF EFFORT. (Sons and daughters of wealthy men,  and others who inherit money which they did not earn). Power in  the hands of one who did not acquire it gradually, is often fatal to  success. QUICK RICHES are more dangerous than poverty.

27. INTENTIONAL DISHONESTY. There is no substitute for  honesty. One may be temporarily dishonest by force of  circumstances over which one has no control, without permanent  damage. But, there is NO HOPE for the person who is dishonest by  choice. Sooner or later, his deeds will catch up with him, and he  will pay by loss of reputation, and perhaps even loss of liberty.

28. EGOTISM AND VANITY. These qualities serve as red  lights which warn others to keep away. THEY ARE FATAL TO  SUCCESS.

29. GUESSING INSTEAD OF THINKING. Most people are  too indifferent or lazy to acquire FACTS with which to THINK  ACCURATELY. They prefer to act on "opinions" created by  guesswork or snap-judgments.

30. LACK OF CAPITAL. This is a common cause of failure  among those who start out in business for the first time, without  sufficient reserve of capital to absorb the shock of their mistakes,  and to carry them over until they have established a  REPUTATION.

31. Under this, name any particular cause of failure from  which you have suffered that has not been included in the  foregoing list.

In these thirty major causes of failure is found a description of the tragedy  of life, which obtains for practically every person who tries and fails. It will be  helpful if you can induce someone who knows you well to go over this list with  you, and help to analyze you by the thirty causes of failure. It may be beneficial if  you try this alone. Most people cannot see themselves as others see them. You  may be one who cannot.

Are you a leader? Important factors of leadership and causes of failure in leadership.

The following are important factors of leadership:—  

1. UNWAVERING COURAGE based upon knowledge of self, and of one's occupation. No follower wishes to be dominated by a leader who lacks selfconfidence and courage. No intelligent follower will be dominated by such a  leader very long.

2. SELF-CONTROL. The man who cannot control himself, can never control others. Self-control sets a mighty example for one's followers, which the  more intelligent will emulate.

3. A KEEN SENSE OF JUSTICE. Without a sense of fairness and justice, no  leader can command and retain the respect of his followers.

4. DEFINITENESS OF DECISION. The man who wavers in his decisions, shows that he is not sure of himself. He cannot lead others successfully.

5. DEFINITENESS OF PLANS. The successful leader must plan his work, and work his plan. A leader who moves by guesswork, without practical, definite plans, is comparable to a ship without a rudder. Sooner or later he will land on  the rocks.

6. THE HABIT OF DOING MORE THAN PAID FOR. One of the penalties of leadership is the necessity of willingness, upon the part of the leader, to do  more than he requires of his followers.

7. A PLEASING PERSONALITY. No slovenly, careless person can become  a successful leader. Leadership calls for respect. Followers will not respect a  leader who does not grade high on all of the factors of a Pleasing Personality.

8. SYMPATHY AND UNDERSTANDING. The successful leader must be in sympathy with his followers. Moreover, he must understand them and their problems.

9. MASTERY OF DETAIL. Successful leadership calls for mastery of  details of the leader's position.

10. WILLINGNESS TO ASSUME FULL RESPONSIBILITY. The successful  leader must be willing to assume responsibility for the mistakes and the  shortcomings of his followers. If he tries to shift this responsibility, he will not  remain the leader. If one of his followers makes a mistake, and shows himself  incompetent, the leader must consider that it is he who failed.

11. COOPERATION. The successful leader must understand, and apply the principle of cooperative effort and be able to induce his followers to do the  same. Leadership calls for POWER, and power calls for COOPERATION


THE 10 MAJOR CAUSES OF FAILURE IN LEADERSHIP :-

We come now to the major faults of leaders who fail, because it is just as essential to know WHAT NOT TO DO as it is to know what to do.

1. INABILITY TO ORGANIZE DETAILS. Efficient leadership calls for ability to organize and to master details. No genuine leader is ever "too busy" to do anything which may be required of him in his capacity as leader. When a man, whether he is a leader or follower, admits that he is "too busy" to change his  plans, or to give attention to any emergency, he admits his  inefficiency. The successful leader must be the master of all details connected with his position. That means, of course, that he must acquire the habit of relegating details to capable lieutenants.

2. UNWILLINGNESS TO RENDER HUMBLE SERVICE. Truly great leaders are willing, when occasion demands, to perform any sort of labor which they would ask another to perform. "The  greatest among ye shall be the servant of all" is a truth which all  able leaders observe and respect.

3. EXPECTATION OF PAY FOR WHAT THEY "KNOW" INSTEAD OF WHAT THEY DO WITH THAT WHICH THEY KNOW. The world does not pay men for that which they "know." It  pays them for what they DO, or induce others to do.

4. FEAR OF COMPETITION FROM FOLLOWERS. The leader who fears that one of his followers may take his position is practically sure to realize that fear sooner or later. The able leader trains understudies to whom he may delegate, at will, any of the details of his position. Only in this way may a leader multiply himself and prepare himself to be at many places, and give attention to many things at one time. It is an eternal truth that men receive more pay for their ABILITY TO GET OTHERS TO  PERFORM, than they could possibly earn by their own efforts. An efficient leader may, through his knowledge of his job and the  magnetism of his personality, greatly increase the efficiency of others, and induce them to render more service and better service than they could render without his aid.

5. LACK OF IMAGINATION. Without imagination, the leader is incapable of meeting emergencies, and of creating plans  by which to guide his followers efficiently.

6. SELFISHNESS. The leader who claims all the honor for the  work of his followers, is sure to be met by resentment. The really  great leader CLAIMS NONE OF THE HONORS. He is contented to  see the honors, when there are any, go to his followers, because he  knows that most men will work harder for commendation and  recognition than they will for money alone.

7. INTEMPERANCE. Followers do not respect an  intemperate leader. Moreover, intemperance in any of its various forms, destroys the endurance and the vitality of all who indulge in  it.

8. DISLOYALTY. Perhaps this should have come at the head  of the list. The leader who is not loyal to his trust, and to his  associates, those above him, and those below him, cannot long  maintain his leadership. Disloyalty marks one as being less than the  dust of the earth, and brings down on one's head the contempt he  deserves. Lack of loyalty is one of the major causes of failure in  every walk of life.

9. EMPHASIS OF THE "AUTHORITY" OF LEADERSHIP.  The efficient leader leads by encouraging, and not by trying to instil  fear in the hearts of his followers. The leader who tries to impress  his followers with his "authority" comes within the category of  leadership through FORCE. If a leader is a REAL LEADER, he will have no need to advertise that fact except by his conduct— his  sympathy, understanding, fairness, and a demonstration that he knows his job.

10. EMPHASIS OF TITLE. The competent leader requires no  "title" to give him the respect of his followers. The man who makes  too much over his title generally has little else to emphasize. The doors to the office of the real leader are open to all who wish to  enter, and his working quarters are free from formality or ostentation.

11 evening habits that can makes you successful.

1)  Evaluate your day

   Three ways to evaluate your day:-

1. To ask yourself at the end of the day that, "Did today matters?"
2. Do those things first which are important that you've been putting off.
3  Every morning ask two questions to yourself:
    a) How are you felling
    b) what do you want?

2)  Write the things down.

     Writing the things will give you clarity that what you have to do. You can make to do list. To do list can be categorized into four types:-

1.  Urgent and important.
2.  Important but not urgent.
3.  Urgent but not important.
4.  Not urgent and not important.

Schedule your day on the basis of this above matrix.

3)  Plan the next day.

1. Check you tomorrow's list.
     (Once see what is on you to do list for tomorrow).
 
2. Write tomorrows task.
     ( Make a note of everything that you want to do tomorrow, don't keep things in your head; just write it down).

3. Imagine a successful day.

4. Go ahead, sleep!

4)  Unplug.

       Put your phone on airplane mode or switch it off until you complete your task. Set a duration for using your mobile phone, define a particular time for using your phone i.e 15 minute to 30 minute (not more than 30 minutes).

5)  Maintain personal hygiene.

Keep yourself clean, cut your hair, cut your nails, comb your hair. Represent yourself as a neat and clean gentlemen so that people loves to connect with you.

6)  Evening exercise.

  Do the exercise at evening time, do it each day and everyday. It helps you to reduce your day stress, laziness and your day tiredness.

7)  Prepare tomorrow's outfit.

 Prepare today that what you are going to wear tomorrow, iron your dress, manage each and everything, your shoes, your tie, your handkerchief everything.

8)  Connect wirh loves one.
      

Talk with your family, friends and neighbours. Message then or do a video chat with them, at least contact with your one friend everyday. Don't let them think about you have forgotten them.

9)  Read.

Read something each and everyday. Read at least 50 pages every evening. You can choose your books according to your interest. You can read personal development books or business related books which can help you to gain knowledge.

10)  Set alarm.

Set alarm and put it away. Decide today that what time you are going to wake up tomorrow. Always set alarm for 5 minute earlier than your waking time.

11)  Sleep earlier.

Go to bed earlier so that you can wake up early in the morning tomorrow. Don't stay till late night.
   
     

Financial goal for every decades.

 IN YOUR 20'S

-Learn to live below your mean.
-Become financially independent.
-Develop a retirement plan.
-Learn your credit score.
-Start paying off your debts.
-Start an emergency fund.
-Get health insurance.

IN YOUR 30'S

-Have 2x your salary saved for retirement.
-Pay off non-mortage debts.
-Create a will.
-Start saving for kids college fund.
-If a parent-get life insurance.
-Increase your emergency fund.
-Read up on financial planning.

IN YOUR 40'S

-Have 3x your salary saved for retirement.
-Up your kid's college savings.
-Review your financial plan.
-Evaluate your household budget.
-Diversify your portfolio.
-Meet with financial planners.


IN YOUR 50'S

-Have 5x yor salary saved for retirement.
-Pay off your house.
-Look into long term care insurance.
-Look into Annuities.



IN YOUR 60'S

-Have 8x your salary saved for retirement.
-Check out your social security options.
-Investigate trusts.
-Revaluate your budget.
-Look into part-time employment options.

Billionaires are said to have 7 source of income.

1)  EARNED INCOME

      Earned income is the money that you earn by doing something or by spending your time earning like a day job. It is the source of income where billionaires focus less because they prefer passive income more than earned income. You have to give your time to make money, average people focuses on earned income.

No one has ever become rich by depending upon earned income, you're paid less by working more. Rich people first focuses on other six sources of income rather than this one.


2)  PROFIT INCOME

     Money that you earn by selling something for more than it cost you to make is called profit income. Rich people first make their product at low cost and then they sell it at high price to earn profit.

Many youngsters who are new and want to earn profit by selling prducts than you can make some money starting dropshipping business (online business) with less than 100$ or you can sell Amazon or Flipcart products online and earn commission.


3)  INTEREST INCOME

 
 The money you get as result of lending your money to someone else is called interest income. Many people lends their money to others and earn high interest on their money. Warren Buffett also do the same, he lend his money to many banks.

You don't need a huge amount of money to lend, you can start it with few amounts too. You can lend your money to your friends, neighbours or anyone else who need money and charge interest.


4)  DIVIDEND INCOME

 

   The money earned from stocks dividend is called dividend income. It is the income which made Warren Buffett world 3rd richest man. He makes 3.4 billion dollars every year only from his five dividends. It is the source of creating massive passive income, you don't have to work day and night, this type of income you can make while sleeping. Just you have to do is to gain knowledge on investment and then invest your money in stocks.

Their are many apps which can help you to teach trading like IQ Brooker app which are made  specially for beginners.


5)   RENTAL INCOME

      The money that you get as a result of renting out an assets that you have, like house or a building is called rental income. Rich people either buy or built houses and lend it to get monthly income.


6)   ROYALTY INCOME.

      The money you get as a result of letting someone use your product,Ideas or processes is called royalty income. For example: if you own a shop and someone want to open another shop by taking your shop name (as a Franchise) than he will pay you a amount for shop's name (according to the agreement). This is royalty income. Same was happened with Mc Donald.


7)   CAPITAL GAIN.

      The money that you get as a result of increase in value of an assets that you own is called capital gain. House, building, lands, Mutual fund, bonds and stock are some example of assets. The gain is not realized until the assets is sold at higher price than its purchased price.
   
 

The 10x rule and 10x thinking

This blog is going to be little bit short because I will cover just concept of 10x rule and 10x thinking. I will not provide you any blue print today because you will understand by yourself that what it means and how it works and how you can apply it in your life. And remember again, it can be applied by anyone, in any profession and there is no any age restriction.

# 10X RULE:

10x rule says that, if you want to achieve wny result, then you have to work 10 times more harder than your expectation. For example: If you want to make 50,000 sales in one year, then you have to multiply the effort you think it will take, by 10. Sometimes it seems that working 4 hours is enough to get your result, but its not true, you might have to work 8 hours a day either consciously or unconsciously. And if not, if you get the result without taking 10x action, then CONGRATULATIONS! because it doesn't happen again and again, it is very rare.

# 10X THINKING:

10X thinking says that, for example: If you want to make 1 million dollars than you have to multiply it by 10 (i.e 1×10=10 million dollars) and figure out steps and efforts it takes, and then work on it. Even if you fall down to earn 10 million dollar, then there's a pretty high chance you'll be above your original goal (i.e 1 million dollars).

When you apply 10x rule in your thinking and then applying 10x rule in your action, success is guaranteed because it deadly combination when 10x rule and 10x thinking comes together. There is also a book written on 10x Rule by 'Grant cardone', free book is also available in internet. If you are interested in reading more on this topic then you can read it.



QUOTES OF THE DAY: Don't be confused by what look's like luck to you. Lucky people don't make successful people; people who completely comit themselves to success seems to get lucky in life.
                                                                                                                                                 - unknown

How to invest in yourself?

Actually it's the first step towards success in any sector which many people doesn't know. It doesn't matter either you want to be a doctor, lawyer, engineer, Investor, businessman or want to accumulate great riches. If you want to be successful then you have to invest in yourself. Today I'm gonna show you some way you can invest in yourself and remember their is no any age restriction and profession restriction, any one can do this either you are a student or a businessman it doesn't matter.


       # 5 WAYS TO INVEST IN YOURSELF


1)   To find a mentor.

      Mentor means teacher (guru)/adviser. You can find a mentor who can guide you that what to do and what not to do, who can help you in each step on your way, who can push you up. Mentor will guide you, trains you, motivate you, provide you knowledge and support you to achieve success.

Almost every successful individual has his/her mentor. A mentor is someone who forces you to do something which is necessary in order to succeed even if you don't want to do. A good mentor may scold you or tell you something that you don't like but he will make you succeed at any cost, he takes the whole responsibility by himself but you must have wilingness to succeed. And remember, always find a mentor who is already successful in a sector in which you want to succeed, who listen you, who observe you (on the basis of strength and weakness), and especially who can understand you. If you don't have idea where to find a mentor then you can google it, there are different agencies who can help you.

2)    Read more books

       Read books as much as you can. Reading books means, reading those books in which you are interested, which is related with your goal, you dont have to read school books all day because school doesn't teach you to be an entrepreneur it only teaches to make you employee. Many people love to read comics books but that is just a waste of time. In short, you have to read the books which take you closer to your goal. For example: if you want to be an investor then you have to read the books related to investments and if you want self improvement then you can read self improvement books. Every successful people are readers.

  Warrent Buffet (world best investor) said one of his interview that, he has only become successful by reading the books and nothing else, he started reading balancesheet just at the age of 11. Bill Gates still read five hundred pages every single day, Elon Musk also do the same. And their is also one saying that, "Every leaders are readers". And only reading books is not enough, you have to apply it in your life too.Gain knowledge as much as you can, educate yourself as much as you can, Invest in your knowledge because it will pay you the best dividend. And remember, reading should be done every single day, if you read only 25 pages a day, then it will be 9000+ page in a year and it really matters.


3)    Go on a course

       Taking courses will boost your mind, you will learn something new. For example: taking courses on investment will teach you something new that you don't know before and also tells you how to use it, where to use it and when to use it. Many people hesitate to take a course because it cost money but they don't understand that the course which will cost them just a few dollar can help them to earn millions. Warren Buffet once took a course which help him to earn millions of dollars in stock market. Go on a course, it is the place where you will learn something new by expert,they provide you a model to use it.

If there is no any courses available in your area then you can take help of internet. There are many websites and apps who can help you, where you can learn many skills for free too. Some apps like Coursera and Udemy can help you. similarly you can watch videos of Grant Cardone and Robert kiyosaki, if you are from India then you can also watch videos Vivek Bindra. There are many opportunities around you, what are you waiting for? Just take the courses, apply it in your life and improve yourself.


4)   Start side hustle

       Side hustle means doing something beyond your professional work to earn or to learn in which you are interested. Starting side hustle will push you out of your comfort zone. Part-time jobs, starting online businesses, working as a freelancer are some example of side hustle. Many people do it for paying their credit card debts, some people do it for their livelihood, some for learning skills and some for quitting their 9-5 jobs. Remember, always start your side hustle according to your interest. If you want to quit your 9 to 5 job then you can do it with the help of your side hustle. For example: if you are caught up in 9 to 5 job which you don't like then you can quit, you can start your business as a side hustle and work on it slowly, and later on when your business income exceed then income earned from your job then you can quit your job and can give your full time in your business.

And please don't give a foolish reason that you don't have time for side hustle, you always have a time, you just don't have time management. If you are doing 9-5 job, then what are you doing after that? What are you doing from 5 -10 after your job. Just go and find your side hustle according to your interest and work on it.


5)     Networking

        Networking simply means building contacts. Build your contacts as much as you can, always maintain good relation with everyone. It doesn't matter how the people are and what type of person they are, always try to cooperate with them because you never know when you might need help from them. Building contacts are beneficial for both your personal and professional life. Networking means establishing relationships with people who will become your friends as you go through your career.

Developing your network is easy than you think  because you know more people than you think you know, like family, friends, roommates, staff, fellow students, past and present co-workers, neighbours, club and organization members,people at the gym, the local coffee house, and neighborhood store, people in your religious community etc. LinkedIn is the app which can help you to build your networks.
     
     

The 80/20 principle

The 80/20 Principle can and should be used by every intelligent person in their daily life, by every organization, and by every social grouping and  form of society. It can help individuals and groups achieve much more, with  much less effort. The 80/20 Principle can raise personal effectiveness and  happiness. It can multiply the profitability of corporations and the effectiveness of any organization.

The 80/20 Principle asserts that a minority of causes, inputs or effort usually lead to a majority of the results, outputs or rewards. Taken literally, this  means that, for example, 80 per cent of what you achieve in your job comes from 20 per cent of the time spent. 

Therefore, this principle states that: 80 percent of the result comes from the 20 percent of effort. This principle is also known as 'PARETO PRINCIPLE'.

This principle is applicable in any area of your life and in any of your profession either you are a doctor, salesman, businessman, lawyer, student, housewife, electrician etc. Just you have to do is to analyze 20 percent of the work that can produce 80 percent of the result, and focus on that 20 percent. It is the principle that makes your daily life easier, it decreases your input and increases output.
For example: suppose you are a salesman working six hours a day, than you just have to do is to focus on satisfying those 20 percent of your customers that are producing your 80 percent of your sales which might take just two hours. You don't have to focus on whole.

And remember that, their is 20 percent of the effort that will produce 80 percent of the result, it is already there, you just have to find what is that, its not that it is not available, it is available in any sector. It is for everyone and for any profession, it doesn't matter weather you are a security guard or seventy year old man.


# HOW TO FIND YOUR 20 PERCENT OF THE EFFORT?

Now the question is, how to find your 20 percent of the effort that produces 80 percent of the result. Actually its not similar for everyone, it varies from person to person and from profession to profession. You have to find it by yourself. If I give the answer, then it might be helpful in one or two person/profession but not for everyone's profession. You have to analyze it by yourself, what is that 20 percent of the work that produce your 80 percent of the result?

# HOW I HAVE FIND MY 20 PERCENT OF THE EFFORT?

Whenever I need to find my 20% of the effort that will lead to 80% of the result, I choose the morning time just after I wake up in the morning because it is the time when my mind is relaxed and I can fully concentrate on something and can think
deeply. For example: If I had to teach lessons to my 60 clients today (8 hour schedule) then I describe that clients and lessons together  In a piece of paper (which brings me clarity) and I analyze them both very carefully, it doesn't matter how much time it takes. And then I get my answer that where to focus on, I find that just I have to focus on some basic aspects (20%) and rest of the lesson they will be taught by themselves (80%). It takes just 3 and half hour to complete.


QUOTES OF THE DAY: IF YOU CANNOT BRING PEACE TO YOUR OWN HOUSEHOLD, HOW DARE YOU TRY TO RULE A CITY.
                   -PROFESSOR JORDAN PETERSON.

How to remove fear?

First of all we must know the types of fear, there are two types of fear; Normal and Abnormal fear.

Normal fear: You hear an automobile coming  down the road, and you step aside to survive. The momentary fear of  being run over is overcome by your action. All other fears were given  to you by parents, relatives, teachers, and all those who influenced  your early years. Normal fear is good.

Abnormal fear: There are people who are afraid that something terrible will happen to to them or their children, and that some dread catastrophe will befall them. When they read about an epidemic or rare disease, they live in fear that they will catch it, and some imagine they have the disease already. All this is abnormal fear, abnormal fear is not good.

· Master technique for overcoming any particular fear.

The following is a process and technique for overcoming fear, which I teach from the platform. It works like a charm. Try it!

Suppose you are afraid of the water, a mountain, an inter-view, an  audition, or you fear closed places. If you are afraid of swimming,  begin now to sit still for five or ten minutes three or four times a day,  and imagine you are swimming. Actually, you are swimming in your mind. It is a subjective experience. Mentally you have projected yourself into the water. You feel the chill of the water and the movement of your arms and legs. It is all real, vivid, and a joyous activity of the mind. It is not idle  daydreaming, for you know that what you are experiencing in your  imagination will be developed in your subconscious mind. Then you  will be compelled to express the image and likeness of the picture you  impressed on your deeper mind. This is the law of the subconscious. You could apply the same technique if you are afraid of mountains or high places. Imagine you are climbing the moun-tain, feel the  reality of it all, enjoy the scenery, knowing that as you continue to do  this mentally, you will do it physically with ease and comfort.

· Deliver yourself from all your fears 

  Use this perfect formula for casting out fear. I sought the Lord, and  He heard me, and delivered me from all my fears. The  Lord is an ancient word meaning law--the power of your  subconscious mind.   Learn the wonders of your subconscious, and how it works and  functions. Master the techniques given to you in this chapter. Put them  into practice now, today! Your subconscious will re-spond, and you  will be free of all fears. I sought the Lord, and He heard me, and  delivered me from all my fears.

· Step this way to freedom from fear

1. Do the thing you are afraid to do, and the death of fear is certain. Say to yourself and mean it, “I am going to master this fear,” and you will.

2. Fear is a negative thought in your mind. Supplant it with a constructive thought. Fear has killed millions. Confidence is greater than fear. Nothing is more powerful than faith in God and the good.

3. Fear is man’s greatest enemy. It is behind failure, sickness, and bad human relations. Love casts out fear. Love is an emotional attachment to the good things of life. Fall in love with honesty, integrity, justice, good will, and success. Live in the joyous expectancy of the best, and invariably the best will come to you.

4. Counteract the fear suggestions with the opposite, such as “I sing beautifully; I am poised, serene, and calm.” It will pay fabulous dividends.

5. Fear is behind amnesia at oral and written examination time. You can overcome this by affirming frequently, “I have a perfect memory for everything I need to know,” or you can imagine a friend congratulating you on your bril-liant success on the examination. Persevere and you will win.

6. If you are afraid to cross water, swim. In your imagina-tion swim freely, joyously. Project yourself into the water mentally. Feel the chill and thrill of swimming across the pool. Make it vivid. As you do this subjectively, you will be compelled to go into the water and conquer it. This is the law of your mind.

7. If you are afraid of closed places, such as elevators, lecture halls, etc., mentally ride in an elevator blessing all its parts and functions. You will be amazed how quickly the fear will be dissipated.

8. You were born with only two fears, the fear of falling and the fear of noise. All your other fears were acquired. Get rid of them.

9. Normal fear is good. Abnormal fear is very bad and de-structive. To constantly indulge in fear thoughts results in abnormal fear, obsessions, and complexes. To fear some-thing persistently causes a sense of panic and terror.

10. You can overcome abnormal fear when you know the power of your subconscious mind can change conditions and bring to pass the cherished desires of your heart. Give your immediate attention and devotion to your desire which is the opposite of your fear. This is the love that casts out fear.

11. If you are afraid of failure, give attention to success. If you are afraid of sickness, dwell on your perfect health. If you are afraid of an accident, dwell on the guidance and protection of God. If you are afraid of death, dwell on Eternal Life. God is Life, and that is your life now.

12. The great law of substitution is the answer to fear. What-ever you fear has its solution in the form of your desire. If you are sick, you desire health. If you are in the prison of fear, you desire freedom. Expect the good. Mentally con-centrate on the good, and know that your subconscious mind answers you always. It never fails.

13. The things you fear do not really exist except as thoughts in your mind. Thoughts are creative. This is why Job said; the thing I feared has come upon me. Think good and good follows.

14. Look at your fears; hold them up to the light of reason. Learn to laugh at your fears. That is the best medicine.

15. Nothing can disturb you but your own thought. The suggestions, statements, or threats of other persons have no power. The power is within you, and when your thoughts are focused on that which is good, then God’s power is with your thoughts of good. There is only one Creative Power, and It moves as harmony. There are no divisions of quarrels in it. Its source is Love. This is why God’s power is with your thoughts of good.

Quote of the day: Ralph Waldo Emerson, philosopher and poet, said, “Do the thing  you are afraid to do, and the death of fear is certain.”

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How to break or build a habit using your subconscious mind

If you are new to my blog then readers are highly requested to read out my previous blog on how to remove mental blocks and how much do you want what you want. Where you will know what your subconscious is and how it works.

How to break or build a habit  

You are a creature of habit. Habit is the function of your  subconscious mind. You learned to swim, ride a bicycle, dance, and  drive a car by consciously doing these things over and over again until  they established tracks in your subconscious mind. Then, the  automatic habit action of your subconscious mind took over. This is  sometimes called second nature, which is a reaction of your  subconscious mind to your thinking and acting.

You are free to choose a good habit or a bad habit. If you repeat a  negative thought or act over a period of time, you will be under the  compulsion of a habit. The law of your sub-conscious is compulsion.

How he broke a bad habit 

 Once a man said to Joseph Murphy, “An uncontrollable urge to drink seizes me, and I remain drunk for two weeks at a time. I can’t give up this  terrible habit.”

Time and time again these experiences had occurred to this  unfortunate man. He had grown into the habit of drinking to excess.  Although he had started drinking of his own initiative, he also began  to realize that he could change the habit and establish a new one. He said that while through his will power he was able to suppress his  desires temporarily, his continued efforts to suppress the many urges  only made matters worse. His repeated failures convinced him that he  was hopeless and powerless to control his urge or obsession. This idea  of being powerless operated as a powerful suggestion to his  subconscious mind and aggravated his weakness, making his life a  succession of failures.

Joseph Murphy taught him to harmonize the functions of the conscious and  subconscious mind. When these two cooperate, the idea or desire  implanted in the subconscious mind is realized. His reason-ing mind  agreed that if the old habit path or track had carried him into trouble,  he could consciously form a new path to freedom, sobriety, and peace  of mind. He knew that his de-structive habit was automatic, but since  it was acquired through his conscious choice, he realized that if he had  been conditioned negatively, he also could be conditioned positively.  As a result, he ceased thinking of the fact that he was powerless to  overcome the habit. Moreover, he understood clearly that there was no  obstacle to his healing other than his own thought.

Therefore, there was no occasion for great mental effort or mental  coercion.

· The power of his mental picture  

This man acquired a practice of relaxing his body and getting into a  relaxed, drowsy, meditative state. Then he filled his mind with the  picture of the desired end, knowing his sub-conscious mind could  bring it about the easiest way. He imagined his daughter  congratulating him on his freedom, and saying to him, “Daddy, it’s  wonderful to have you home!” He had lost his family through drink.  He was not allowed to visit them, and his wife would not speak to  him.

Regularly, systematically, he used to sit down and meditate in the way outlined. When his attention wandered, he made it a habit to immediately recall the mental picture of his daughter with her smile and the scene of his home enlivened by her cheerful voice. All thisbrought about a reconditioning of his mind. It was a gradual process. He kept it up. He persevered knowing that sooner or later he would establish a new habit pattern in his subconscious mind.

 I told him that he could liken his conscious mind to a camera, that his subconscious mind was the sensitive plate on which he registered and impressed the picture. This made a pro-found impression on him, and his whole aim was to firmly impress the picture on his mind and develop it there. Films are developed in the dark; likewise, mental pictures are developed in the darkroom of the subconscious mind.

Focused attention

Realizing that his conscious mind was simply a camera, he used no  effort. There was no mental struggle. He quietly ad-justed his thoughts  and focused his attention on the scene before him until he gradually  became identified with the picture. He became absorbed in the mental  atmosphere, repeating the mental movie frequently. There was no  room for doubt that a healing would follow. When there was any  temptation to drink, he would switch his imagination from any  reveries of drinking bouts to the feeling of being at home with his  family. He was successful because he confidently expected to  experience the picture he was developing in his mind. Today he is  president of a multimillion-dollar concern and is radiantly happy.

· He said a jinx was following him

Mr. Block said that he had been making an annual income of  $20,000, but for the past three months all doors seemed to jam tightly.  He brought clients up to the point where they were about to sign on  the dotted line, and then at the eleventh hour the door closed. He  added that perhaps a jinx was following him.

In discussing the matter with Mr. Block, I discovered that three  months previously he had become very irritated, annoyed, and  resentful toward a dentist who, after he had promised to sign a  contract, had withdrawn at the last moment. He began to live in the  unconscious fear that other clients would do the same, thereby setting  up a history of frustration, hostility, and obstacles. He gradually built up in his mind a belief in obstruc-tion and last minute cancellations  until a vicious circle had been established. What I fear most has come  upon me. Mr. Block realized that the trouble was in his mind, and that  it was essential to change his mental attitude.

His run of so-called misfortune was broken in the follow-ing way:  “I realize I am one with the infinite intelligence of my subconscious  mind which knows no obstacle, difficulty, or delay. I live in the  joyous expectancy of the best. My deeper mind responds to my  thoughts. I know that the work of the infinite power of my  subconscious cannot be hindered. Infinite intelligence always finishes  successfully whatever it begins. Creative wisdom works through me  bringing all my plans and purposes to completion. Whatever I start, I  bring to a success-ful conclusion. My aim in life is to give wonderful  service, and all those whom I contact are blessed by what I have to  offer. All my work comes to full fruition in divine order.”

He repeated this prayer every morning before going to call on his  customers, and he also prayed each night prior to sleep. In a short time  he had established a new habit pattern in his subconscious mind, and  he was back in his old accustomed stride as a successful salesman.

Conclusion:

1) Habit is the function of your subconscious mind. There is no  greater evidence of the marvelous power of your sub-conscious than  the force and sway habit holds in your life. You are a creature of habit.

2) You form habit patterns in your subconscious mind by repeating  a thought and act over and over again until it establishes tracks in the  subconscious mind and becomes automatic, such as swimming,   dancing, typing, walking, driving your car, etc.

3) You have freedom to choose. You can choose a good habit or a  bad habit.

4) Whatever mental picture, backed by faith, you behold in your  conscious mind, and your subconscious mind will bring to pass.

5)  The only obstacle to your success and achievement is your own  thought or mental image.

6) When your attention wanders, bring it back to the con-templation  of your good or goal. Make a habit of this. This is called disciplining  the mind.

7) The only jinx that follows anyone is a fear thought re-peated over  and over in the mind. Break the jinx by know-ing that whatever you  start you will bring to a conclusion in divine order. Picture the happy  ending and sustain it with confidence.

8)  To form a new habit, you must be convinced that it is desirable.  When your desire to give up the bad habit is greater than your desire  to continue, you are fifty-one per-cent healed already.


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How to forgive someone and how to remove mental blocks?

Today this blog is on how you can forgive someone and how you can remove mental blocks so that you can achieve whatever you want. The contents in this blog is real, it is said by many motivational speakers like Grant Cardone and Vivek Bindra (Indian motivational speaker) and famous authors like Joseph Murphy and are applied by many successful people like Henry Ford. This blog might be little lengthy because two topics are explained in this blog.

Therefore, readers are highly requested to read till the end in order to enjoy fortune.

This blog is about the unknown power which lies within yourself, just you have to do is to give it a shape. Can you guess that power? The answer is the "power of your subconscious mind". It is the power which lies within you,you can do whatever you want with the help of your subconscious mind but remember, it should not be used to harm others if you do so, then you won't be benefitted. It must be used for constructive purpose and to help others to get benefitted by it.

You can bring into your life more power, more wealth, more health,  more happiness, and more joy by learning to con-tact and release the  hidden power of your subconscious mind.You need not acquire this power; you already possess it. But, you  want to learn how to use it; you want to understand it so that you can  apply it in all departments of your life.The infinite intelligence within your subconscious mind can reveal  to you everything you need to know at every moment of time and  point of space provided you are open-minded and receptive.
I have seen the power of the subconscious lift people up out of  crippled states, making them whole, vital, and strong once more, and  free to go out into the world to experience happiness, health, and  joyous expression. There is a miraculous healing power in your  subconscious that can heal the troubled mind and the broken heart. It  can open the prison door of the mind and liberate you. It can free you  from all kinds of material and physi-cal bondage. Even I have experienced it for many times so I thought to share it with you people. First of all you need to know about your subconscious mind so let's start with brief introduction of your subconscious mind.

You have a mind, and you should learn how to use it. There are two  levels of your mind--the conscious and the subconscious level. You think with your conscious mind,  and whatever you habitually think sinks down into your subconscious  mind, which creates according to the nature of your thoughts. Your  subconscious mind is the seat of your emotions and is the creative  mind. If you think good, good will follow; if you think evil, evil will  follow. This is the way your mind works.

The main point to remember is once the subconscious mind accepts  an idea, it begins to execute it. It is an interesting and subtle truth that  the law of the subconscious mind works for good and bad ideas alike.  This law, when applied in a negative way, is the cause of failure,  frustration, and unhappiness. How-ever, when your habitual thinking  is harmonious and construc-tive, you experience perfect health,  success, and prosperity.

Whatever you claim mentally and feel  as true, your subconsciousmind will accept and bring into your experience. The only thing necessary for you to do is to get your  subconscious mind to accept your idea, and the law of your own  subconscious mind will bring forth the health, peace, or the position  you desire.The law of your mind is this: You will get a reaction or response from your  subconscious mind according to the nature of the thought or idea you  hold in your conscious mind.

Psychologists and psychiatrists point out that when thoughts are  conveyed to your subconscious mind, impressions are made in the  brain cells. As soon as your subconscious accepts any idea, it proceeds  to put it into effect immediately.Your subconscious mind accepts what is impressed upon it or what  you consciously believe.

Remember, your subconscious mind does not engage in proving  whether your thoughts are good or bad, true or false, but it responds  according to the nature of your thoughts or suggestions. For example,  if you consciously assume something as true, even though it may be  false, your subconscious mind will accept it as true and proceed to  bring about results, which must neces-sarily follow, because you  consciously assumed it to be true.

Your subconscious mind cannot argue controversially. Hence, if  you give it wrong suggestions, it will accept them as true and will  proceed to bring them to pass as conditions, ex-periences, and events. All things that have happened to you are based on thoughts impressed  on your subconscious mind through belief. But the question is How to make your subconscious mind to accept your thought? The answer is the continuous thinking of something that you want with belief on it. If you think continuously about something then that thought is accepted by your subconscious mind and once your subconscious mind accepts any thought, it take an immediate action and make it possible in real life. But your thought must be accepted by your subconscious mind with belief.
Example:-
· How she succeeded in getting what she wanted?
There is a young lady who regularly comes to lectures and classes. She had to change buses three times; it took her one and a half  hours each time to come to lectures. In one lecture Dr. Murphy explained how  a young man who needed a car in his work received one.  She went home and experimented as outlined in that lecture. Here is  her letter in part, narrating her application of my method, and  published by her permission: Dear Dr. Murphy:  This is how I received a Cadillac car--I wanted one to come to the  lectures regularly. In my imagination I went through the identical  process I would go through if I were actually driving a car. I went to  the showroom, and the sales-man took me for a ride in one. I also  drove it several blocks. I claimed the Cadillac car as my own over and  over again.  I kept the mental picture of getting into the car, driving it, feeling  the upholstery, etc., consistently for over two weeks. Last week I  drove to your lectures in a Cadillac. My uncle in Inglewood passed  away, and left me his Cadillac and his entire estate.
Many people call it coincidence but actually its not, it is the power of your subconscious mind which has ability to convert impossible to possible. Whatever you can think you can achieve but remember your thinking must be practical.From this it is perfectly obvious that the only  thing you have to do in order to overcome failure is to get your  subconscious to accept your idea or request by feeling its reality now,  and the law of your mind will do the rest.What you form in your  imagination is as real as any part of your body. The idea and the  thought are real and will one day appear in your objective world if you  are faithful to your mental image.Just calmly  think over what you want; see it com-ing into fuller fruition from this  moment forward. Be like the little girl who had a very bad cough and  a sore throat. She de-clared firmly and repeatedly, “It is passing away  now. It is pass-ing away now.” It passed away in about an hour. Use  this tech-nique with complete simplicity.

 I hope you people know now the power of your subconscious mind,how your subconscious mind works and how it can accept your thought. Now let's come to know how your subconscious mind can help you get "What you want" and in "Foriveness".

  #How much do you want what you want?

The question is not what you want but the real question is how much do you want what you want?
A young man asked Socrates how he could get wisdom. Socrates  replied, “Come with me.” He took the lad to a river, pushed the boy’s  head under the water, held it there until the boy was gasping for air,  then relaxed and released his head. When the boy regained his  composure, he asked him, “What did you desire most when you were  under water?”  “I wanted air,” said the boy.  Socrates said to him, “When you want wisdom as much as you  wanted air when you were immersed in the water, you will receive it.”   Likewise, when you really have an intense desire to over-come any  block in your life, and you come to a clear-cut de-cision that there is away out, and that is the course you wish to follow, then victory and  triumph are assured. It can also be called as 'burning desire' 

 Whatever you want just repeat it continuously, imagine it with faith that you have already got it, try to feel it with your closed eyes, remember their should not be any doubt in you mind if it is there then you won't be able to get what you want. Scientists have proved that our subconscious mind is more active just before sleep and after waking up. If you think about your desired result just before going to bed and after waking up in the morning then your thought can be accepted more faster by your subconscious mind.

Three magic steps:-

The first step: Get still; quiet the wheels of the mind. Enter into a  sleepy, drowsy state. In this relaxed, peaceful, receptive state, you are  preparing for the second step.

The second step: Take a brief phrase, which can readily be graven  on the memory, and repeat it over and over as a lullaby. Use the  phrase, “Sobriety and peace of mind are mine now, and I give thanks.”  To prevent the mind from wandering, repeat it aloud or sketch its  pronunciation with the lips and tongue as you say it mentally. This  helps its entry into the subconscious mind. Do this for five minutes or  more. You will find a deep emotional response.

The third step: Just before going to sleep, practice what Johann von  Goethe, German author, used to do. Imagine a friend, a loved one infront of yo. Your eyes are closed, you are relaxed and at peace. The  loved one or friend is subjectively present, and is saying to you,  “Congratulations!” You see the smile; you hear the voice. You  mentally touch the hand; it is all real and vivid. The word  congratulations imply complete freedom. Hear it over and over again  until you get the sub-conscious reaction, which satisfies.

Now let's move on our next topic How to forgive someone?

  #How to forgive someone?

As your subconscious intelligence can be used for various purpose, it can also be used for forgiveness. Forgiveness is the major problem among many people. Many people try to forgive, they try to forget but they are unable to do it. The below contents can help you to forgive someone.

   Life forgives you

Life forgives you when you cut your finger. The subcon-scious intelligence within you sets about immediately to repair it. New cells build bridges over the cut. Should you take some tainted food by error, Life forgives you and causes you to regurgitate it in order to preserve you. If you burn your hand, the Life-Principle reduces the edema and congestion, and gives you new skin, tissue, and cells. Life holds no grudges against you, and it is always forgiving you. Life brings you back to health, vitality, harmony, and peace, if you co-operate by think-ing in harmony with nature. Negative, hurtful memories, bitterness, and ill will clutter up and impede the free flow of the LifePrinciple in you.

  A murderer learned to forgive himself

A man who murdered his brother in Europe once visited to Dr. Murphy. He was suffering from great mental anguish and torture believing that God must punish him. He explained that his brother had been having an affair with his wife, and that he had shot him on the spur of the moment. This had hap-pened about fifteen years previous. In the meantime, this man had married an American girl and had been blessed with three lovely children. He was in a posi-tion where he helped many people, and he was a transformed man. Dr. Murphy explanation to him was that physically and psycho-logically he was not the same man who shot his brother, since scientists inform us that every cell of our bodies changes every eleven months. Moreover, mentally and spiritually he was a new man. He was now full of love and good will for humanity. The “old” man who committed the crime fifteen years before was mentally and spiritually dead. Actually, he was condemning an innocent man! This explanation had a profound effect upon him, and he said it was as if a great weight had been lifted from his mind.

  Technique of forgiveness

The following is a simple method, which works wonders in your life  as you practice it: Quiet your mind, relax, and let go. Think of God  and His love for you, and then affirm, “I fully and freely forgive  (mention the name of the offender); I release him mentally and  spiritually. I completely forgive everything connected with the matter   in question. I am free, and he/she is free. It is a marvelous feeling. It is  my day of general amnesty. I release anybody and everybody who has  ever hurt me, and I wish for each and everyone health, happiness,  peace, and all the blessings of life. I do this freely, joyously, and  lovingly, and whenever I think of the person or persons who hurt me, I  say, ‘I have released you, and all the blessings of life are yours.’ I am  free and you are free. It is wonderful!”

The great secret of true forgiveness is that once you have forgiven  the person, it is unnecessary to repeat the prayer. Whenever the person  comes to your mind, or the particular hurt happens to enter your mind,  wish the delinquent well, and say, “Peace be to you.” Do this as often  as the thought enters your mind. You will find that after a few days  the thought of the person or experience will return less and less often,until it fades into nothingness.

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